Consent before control
Tomoyo supports your dynamic and your goals – but never at the cost of clarity, consent, safety, or privacy.
About Tomoyo
A companion built for intentional growth.
Tomoyo was created to give you a safe place to grow and explore. We are focused on people who want to build better patterns, communicate with care, and feel supported in whatever style relationship they are in – not judged. We're here to make growth and connection feel doable and human.
The story
Why we started, what we noticed, and what we're building differently.
We noticed something simple: most tools help people track behaviors, but very few help people grow with intention. The world has enough apps that optimize for attention – Tomoyo is designed to optimize for clarity and connection.
Tomoyo is built to support reflection, communication, and follow-through – without turning your life into a performance or a game. It's not here to replace relationships, but to help you show up better inside them.
“Growth and connection happen when support feels safe, consistent, and honest.”
What we believe
Principles we use to make decisions – especially hard ones.
Privacy as a default
We build for minimal collection and maximum user agency. If we don't need it, we don't ask for it and we NEVER share data.
Tools should feel calm
No chaos, no dark patterns. Just steady design that helps you think clearly and act intentionally.
Built with restraint
We ship in phases so we can stay responsible, listen closely, and create something amazing in an agile environment.
Curious what “privacy-first” means in practice?
We explain what we collect, why we collect it, and what choices you have.
How Tomoyo is built
Transparent, deliberate, and user-informed.
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Start with the human problem
We design from real-life needs, not trends.
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Ship the smallest useful version
We'd rather be stable and helpful than flashy and fragile.
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Listen, iterate, and protect trust
Your trust is the product. Everything else is secondary.
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Grow the ecosystem responsibly
New features come after the foundation is solid.
If you want the roadmap, visit Timeline. For what you can do today, explore Features.